Married 23 years seperate or equal things

What is better  to do things together or apart.  I visited a couple who were celebrating their 23rd anniversary.  The funny thing was they received an arrangement that was for the neighbor.  She must have been having a surprise party and wanted it delivered somewhere else.  The couple just happened to be celebrating their anniversary.  She runs and he plays golf but I guess it works.  On Friday I delivered to a gentleman that was celebrating his 60th WOW the secret Love and Harmony I guess it works because they have been married for 60 years Peace and Harmony Lisa